You know I’ve spent a lot of time over the years on various little blogs writing about things that anger and annoy me to the point where I think I’ve finally had enough of it all. Funnily enough, while anger can be a source of great energy and motivation in one’s life, it can also be quite exhausting and emotionally draining. It’s pretty much why I haven’t been blogging lately, since I’ve decided to focus solely on improving my life and achieving the goals I have set for myself and not spend any time dwelling on the negative. However sometimes some things are just so annoying that I can’t help but tap into that inner rage whenever I come across something that warrants my wrath.
Today that ‘thing’ is PUA.
For those who don’t know, PUA is short for ‘pick up artist’. Pick up artists are guys who believe they can somehow learn certain principles and maxims that will allow them to have sex with any woman they desire. Now usually I wouldn’t even give these guys any attention, since they sound like the types of dudes that I’d usually look down on – and indeed I do look down on them as I think any normal person would. However it has become clear to me that these PUA’s aren’t just harmless losers, but disgusting, evil, individuals that preach a gospel filled with hatred and depravity.
In short, these guys are training themselves (and others) to be psychopaths.
I mean let’s actually take a look at what these guys preach to their fellow brethren so you get an idea of what I’m talking about. First of all it should be made clear that the only thing that matters to a PUA is that their wants and desires are met. Everything and everyone else around them is just a tool to use to get what they want.
You see PUA’s don’t have friends, they have a ‘social circle’. The only reason one builds a social circle is to maximize their chances of meeting attractive women and so that they can use them as a way to raise their so called social value in the eyes of others. I mean who gives a shit about actually having real connections with people you truly care about and want to be with. That stuff is for losers bro!
This also leads into another big theme that is common in the PUA world – that empathy is something to look down on. You see being compassionate towards others is a sign of weakness to them. They believe that the ultimate male ideal is to be an ‘alpha’….otherwise known as being a self-centered jerk off. Don’t they see that their lack of compassion and empathy towards others is a sign of weakness and insecurity? Truly strong people are those that are so secure and accepting of who they are at their core that they don’t feel the need to try and lord over others to feel good about themselves.
It’s no coincidence that the most impressive men I have ever met in my life were also some of the most loving and caring individuals I have ever come across. They built others around them up rather than try to tear them down. That’s strength. But if you go to any PUA site you’ll notice all the guys are in a constant pissing contest with each other trying to prove how they’re better than the other guy next to them like children fighting in the playground, and yet we’re supposed to take advice from these petty, insecure fools?
This brings me to another point in that PUA’s actively try to strip away the humanity of the people they are socializing with and reduce them to nothing more than objects to be used and manipulated for their own ends. They often talk about ‘neutralizing’ males in order to isolate and latch onto their female ‘targets’ in social situations. Everything is about getting the girl in the right place and circumstances to get what they want, whether it’s sex or a phone number. Men on the other hand are nothing more than obstacles keeping them away from their prize. They don’t actually see human beings when they look across at the person they’re interacting with. Everything’s just a ‘game’ to them. I mean how can anyone honestly live like that? You’d have to be a total fucking degenerate to view people in this way.
That’s why I’m telling all you lonely guys out there to get off this PUA shit. It’s garbage son. It won’t make you happy. What it will do is turn you into an angry, cynical, soulless shell of a human being. If that sounds good to you then go for it, but I refuse to go down that lonely road.