Asian people are too nice

Most of the hits I get on my page are from my articles dealing with the Asian experience so since that’s what you guys want, that’s what you guys are gonna get!

Today I am going to talk about something that I’ve seen a lot from a lot of Asian people. Generally what I’ve noticed is that many Asian people are too nice, especially when it comes to racism. A lot of Asian people don’t fight back and in fact don’t do anything for fear of being criticized since they’re the ones who don’t want to come off badly!

Take for example whenever a self-hating Asian women starts shitting on Asian men (not literally obviously lol). There are a lot of Asian guys out there who when seeing this think to themselves, “oh I need to take the higher road so I don’t look petty”, meanwhile that Asian woman is still talking shit about us for acceptance like a self-hating dog kneeling at the master’s table.

I’m not going to lie, I am generally a very, VERY nice person. I like to treat people well because I don’t like to see others in pain. But now, whenever I come across a person who has it out for me, who disrespects or demeans me…well I’m gonna do everything in my power to crush them. If that means taking advantage of their insecurities, or sabotaging their personal/professional life—hell I’ll do it – I don’t even care anymore.

Now I’m not saying you guys should be like this, and I understand I’m coming across as a petty, vengeful jerk, but you know what? Fuck it. The thing that many Asian guys forget is that they are gonna get messed with by a lot of people in society no matter how we act. That’s how racism works. If that’s the case, then why not be the aggressor and get even with these people while forging your own path in life going after WHAT YOU WANT?

How many times have you seen jerks with power get away with shit while good people who are powerless are made to suffer? Why, if someone uses their white privilege or the fact that they are racially fetishized to try and get one over me, well then I’m gonna do whatever it takes to get even, simply because I hate to see bad people use their power to try and make life worse for others.

I mean seriously nearly every group out there tries to mess with Asian men. I’ve had an Asian woman try to fuck up a relationship I had with a non-Asian girl once. I’ve heard stories of white girls with Asian guys being harassed by white guys, trying to pressure her into being ashamed of him and their relationship. You see everyone’s already doing it, so why not do it back to them? If you’re an Asian guy living in this sort of environment, you got to be ruthless sometimes, because nobody has your back. You gotta destroy your enemies and protect what’s yours.

Shiiiiit you know how many white people use their white privilege to get shit that they don’t deserve in their careers or use racism to destroy a colored person’s self-esteem whenever they are feeling threatened by them? You know how many Asian women dismiss the experiences of Asian men just because it suits their self-interest? Or how many colored people who aren’t Asian claim to be against racism when it is against them, but will turn around and be racist against Asians?

The truth is that there are a lot of selfish people in this world who will use whatever they have to oppress others whether it’s racism, money, or just plain old violence. That’s why I consider it my own personal duty to mess with these people so that they don’t succeed in life and so that I can not only protect and empower myself, but all of those people in the world that actually are good people and I think more Asian men should take the same view.

Fighting

My life is getting crazy maaan..but I love it. Been boxing for a while, and I’m currently training for the start of my amateur career next year. I actually think I got some talent for this. Damn I wanna win, and hopefully qualify for a state level championship or something, maybe even the golden gloves? I know it still a remote possibility since I haven’t even had a fight yet, but I can dream right? 

Don’t think I have enough time to spend writing articles or maintaining an Asian issues themed blog anymore, but at least I can spend some time each week lurking the various web communities that are already out there. I’ll probably only use this as a personal space from now on so if you’re expecting asian issues themed articles, its best you go to another place, I’m kinda moving away from that stuff now.

Too many of the dudes on these asian activist web communities are too weird/crazy for me to tolerate anymore. The worst was when I used to be a member on that SLAC porn forum (lol), craziest weirdos ever. I’ve also realized if you go to those sites or forums they are mostly made up of the same old people that stick around for years on end talking the same bullshit, never doing anything exciting with their lives. 

I believe being knowledgeable is good and all, but there has to be a point in time where that knowledge translates into something more tangible…and frankly that never ends up happening. 

If you’re an Asian person reading this and you’re concerned about anti asian racism or whatever, dont bother with the internet. Most of the people on here are just navel gazing, wasting their time getting angry over words that they read on their screen. If you wanna fight this shit for real, then you need to direct all your energies to being great at what you’re passionate about and make something of yourself. 

once you become successful, then think about reaching out to young asian men and women you meet in your work or social life and help them out. It’s much better than visiting these forums or blogs discussing shit with some crackpot Over and over lol.

The Blueprint

As I stated in my previous entry, this will be my last post on this blog. If any of you are familiar with any of my previous works, you will know that this space on xanga (and wordpress) has been dedicated to analyzing the racial dynamics that exist within society. it is for this reason that I will not go in great detail re-explaining these dynamics once again. However, in order to provide some subtext for what is to follow I feel it necessary to give a brief summary of my thoughts on the matter once and for all.

In short, Asian people, like all colored people, have been put at a great (though not insurmountable) disadvantage in society. White power structures have conditioned people to see Asian men as weak, effeminate, little boys while Asian women are portrayed as nothing more than little playthings that only exist to satiate the desires of white males. The western world, has debased us as a people through decades of imperialism and oppression both here and in Asia and as a result most Asian folk now live lives that fall far below their potential. Our dignity and self respect has nearly been wiped out, apart from isolated Individuals here and there who still cling to their pride.

The more important question however is how to fix this current state of affairs. Firstly we must understand that we cannot rely on white people to change on their own. Generally speaking, from observing society in general over the years I have noticed that white people have thought of a very several powerful way in which they can preserve their privilege. Their main weapon in such matters is that of plausibe deniability.

When I talk of plausable deniability, I mean to talk about the ways in which white people try to disregard the grievances of colored people while maintaining their own sense of moral superiority. When confronted with instances of racism or structural inequalities, many white people go on the defensive, claiming they aren’t racist while refusing to even listen or give attention to the substance of the arguments made by colored people. This way, they can continue to benefit from white privilege and maintain their dominance without having to acknowledge the fact that inequalities do exist or even feel guilty about it. In a way this strategy is perfect. There is no way for colored people to fight against this form of plausible deniability, as whites can just label us as being ‘oversensitive’ or ‘playing the race card’. Since whites currently have all the power, they can get away with it since we do not have the means or the power to challenge them and in turn things never really change.

In this case it is clear that things can only get better if colored people -in this case Asian people – stand up together to change society in our self interest to regain our dignity and self respect as a people. We must band together and use our collective contacts and capital to impose our will in the areas of business, advertising, movies and television so that we will no longer be treated or viewed as lesser people. We must also raise enough capital to invest in restructuring the education systems in Asian countries educate the young about these realities and build a sense of unity within Asia that translates into real outcomes on a global scale. If Asian natives can be deprogrammed from their ‘white worshipping’ disease, things could really get interesting.

It is for this reason that I advocate the pursuit of money and power as much as possible, not for the mere accumulation of capital itself or because of mere materialism, but for the power it brings. There would need to be informal networks of Asian professionals who would be dedicated to helping and supporting fellow members in terms of connections, business opportunities and general emotional support throughout their daily lives. These groups would also need to work with entities in Asia to expand their dominance and reach into Western markets. Members in Asian American branches should also look into financing and supporting nationalist movements and ventures in Asian countries to help counteract Western mulitnational driven social conditioning like various non profit organization fronts that actually serve to infiltrate and influence different Asian societies. The most important thing however is that such groups must give all available opportunities to their Asian members at the expense of everyone else. This means employment, business, social opportunities…everything. The goal would be to have as many Asian people being at the top of their field. White people are already excluding us now, so we must help one another.

Finally such groups would need to help encourage and foster more productive relationships between different Asian nationalities, that means no more inter-asian racism. the focus must shift from Asian nations competing and challenging each other, to Asia itself challenging the West as a unified force as best as possible.

However, one would literally need to give their everything when joining such a group, the bonds made would have to be much deeper than those found in your usual alumni or Asian American advocacy groups. In general the greater the change one wishes to bring, the greater the sacrifice one would have to make to see it come into fruition. This group wouldn’t be just about business or money, but everything. Ideally, if there was anything you would need help with, there should be a member there to support you for the greater good. We would need to be more than friends or comrades, but family. In this case, membership must be tightly controlled where only the most dedicated, overly zealous and motivated individuals should be accepted.

The one problem with such a strategy is that there may not be enough Asian Americans or Asian native people out there who meet these requirements. Would an Asian person be willing to make sacrifices like moving areas or starting a business in the interests of such a group? Especially if they have been conditioned to be somewhat satisfied with their ordinary lives in middle America As second class citizens? Well, that’s for you to decide. I will say this thoughh, if for nothing else, joining such a group would most probably improve your life financially so what’s there to lose?

With that, I must say goodbye. I will no longer check this blog or respond to comments or messages. I have decided to move onto other things, namely I will be starting my own little online community that wont be open to the public. If this sounds interesting to you, please email me at itsdangerousk1d@gmil.com, however be prepared to get on webcam so I can at least see your face to prove your identity. Other than that, I really have nothing more to say, except thank you.

Danger